My MILs surgery on Dec. 3 did not go well. Surgeon cut the procedure short because he found that the cancer had spread beyond what he could deal with. So we're on to Plan B-Chemotherapy, as soon as she recovers her strength. Since she was such an active woman, I suspect it's driving her crazy to be bedridden and/or have limited mobility. I try to visit at least 4 times a week, give her shampoos and rub her feet/arms with moisturizer to make her comfortable in what I consider an overheated environment (if you've spent any time in nursing/rehab centers, you know that they crank up the heat a bit because the clients are usually elderly or wearing little clothing). In the meantime, I'm making sure that FIL gets enough rest and eats well so he and I can be supportive for her.
Second surgery, a risky cardiac procedure for my brother, is scheduled for Dec. 28. Once he returns from the hospital, I will be providing transportation and support to his family. This brother has a love of split pea soup and his doctors usually approve of my leaving a potful in the nursing unit's fridge so he can have a healthy evening snack. Looks like I'm making soup over the Christmas weekend!
I'll be back as soon as possible. I still have the third set of socks to spin and knit and many fiber adventures to report. As they say, the world keeps on spinning (pun intended)........
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We're exactly in the same boot, Carol (is that the right English word?): for us it's also my MIL, and my sister-in-law. The latter was rushed (again) into hospital last Friday and we're afraid we'll have a funeral around Christmas.
Still hope you can have a happy christmas!
Hope your brothers surgery goes well... dont forget to look after yourself & take it easy when you can.
Sending best wishes to you and yours
x
Hi Carol,
Just lurking and sorry to hear about your MIL and Brother. I,ve been supplying allot of TLC to 3 of my friends over the Holiday and we had a funeral on Friday.
Still have the roving from you to spin and knit socks. Love the color.
Janice from Somerset and spin group.
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